self-destruction, ad infinitum

the madness of giving until there's no more to give, the impossible dream is a sad way to live... when the drowning person is addicted to the feeling of drowning, the rescuer is the enemy... when someone feels guilt for the addiction, the helper is the enemy.... the consumer is addicted to consuming, to buying, to spending way beyond their means... for them, the giver is the best friend and the enemy... facing the addiction lowers self-esteem so there is no appreciation for the giver, only avoidance and lashing out to push the giver away... so how to help the addicted consumer is the answer the giver seeks and without that answer, the giver is destined to fail...

and who cares?...